1. You Need To Know Its Over
Sometimes you need just one more night of passion so you can both figure out you’re soulmates, you say? “It seemed like old times at first, but then afterward it was awkward. We had nothing to say to each other!
2. You Still Inlove With Your Ex
As much as we try and deny it, sometimes we hook up with our exes because we still have feelings for them. In my case, sleeping with my ex allowed me to hold on to a piece of him — settling for table scraps from him instead of the full meal. However, there is only so long that you can remain emotionally starved before you go insane. Eventually I ended things for good
3. its More Good Than A One Night Stand.
If you’re the kind of person who is self-conscious about the number of people you’ve slept with, having sex with an ex means you get to have casual sex without adding any notches to your bedpost. Plus, the sex is generally better than with a stranger you’ve just met. In other words, you can get laid without the lingering self-critique you might subject yourself to for having a one-night stand.
4. They Maybe Using You.
Oh this a big one ladies! Looking back, my ex had the ideal situation: he got to have sex without commitment. In other words, he got to have his cake and eat it too. However, I lied to myself and thought “I’m getting sex too, so I’m using him just as much as he is using me.” However, every time I saw him walk out my door in the morning and I was left to deal with my messy emotions, I knew this wasn’t true.
5. Your Health Is At Risk
After we had called it quits for good, I discovered my ex had been sleeping with several other people while he was still having regular sex with me. Luckily, we always practiced safe sex and neither of us ended up with any STIs. However, many people are not as lucky. If you’re going to sleep with your ex, always use condoms and practice safe sex. No matter how much you think you still love this person, engaging in risky behavior with them is never worth the cost to your life.
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